I, VALENTINE – Music For Loving Lovers in Love and Sultry Singles
Editor’s Note: This is something I wrote that originally appeared “somewhere else” back in 2007. Times were different then, so in order for something so archaic to be comprehendible by today’s audiences I’ve added a few *NEW* elements, which will be signaled by obnoxiously writing “new” in capitol letters with two asterisks on either side.
Hearts, Stars and Horseshoes,
It’s that time of the year again. That day between observing Martin Luther King Jr. and (dead) Presidents when we remember that the person we’re sharing a bed with is pretty alright as well. For singles, this is a day when one either remembers how fortunate they were with lovers past (I see you baby!) or loathe the fact that nobody loves them and spend the evening awkwardly trying to scoop something young, drunk and warm (I see you, baby.)
For me, regardless of romantic condition, it’s a time of eating Sweethearts candies and listening to some of the most inspired musical memories from seasons past. That in mind, I thought I’d post some fitting music to you regardless of your condition this February 14th. What follows will either A) Get you and that special someone in ‘that kinda mood’ to have a night of Valentine Laffy Taffy together B) Get you singles pumped up to pimp it out tonight, or C) just chill and procrastinate on that homework due tomorrow you should have had done last night.
Hey, I have to earn one of those Facebook Wall Gifts somehow, right? Also, you’ll notice a lack of Isaac Hayes, LL Cool J, and Marvin Gaye in this list. I agree that they’re probably the Best Love Summer Jam No. 1 OMGLYLASBBQ muzik eVaR, but do you really need another list telling you how great “I Need Love” is?
And into the Tunnel of Love we go…
1) Gang Starr – “Ex Girl to Next Girl” (1992)
For the Romantically Reflective –
A mixtape favorite of mine for several years, this was the centerpiece of Gang Starr’s 1992 classic “Daily Operation.” DJ Premier’s manipulation of Caesar Frazier’s “Funk It Up” becomes the perfect backdrop for arguably Guru’s finest hour. Never has his introspective vocabulary and everyman delivery suited a song better than this tale of love, loss, and closure. Mature without being pretentious, intelligent without being forced, “Ex Girl to Next Girl” remains one of the genre’s greatest moments. Perfection.
2) Amy Winehouse – “F*** Me Pumps” (2003)
For the Cynical Singles in the Corner of the Club Laughing at Those of Us Who Buy Into this “Hallmark Holiday” –
Before she was on the verge of being the next big import, Amy Winehouse debuted overseas with an interesting genre-bending album called “Frank.” Influenced by everything great about the Wikipedia article about the last 50 years of popular music (as well as some not-so-great things such as improper dieting) the album found her channeling great heartfelt R&B one moment and singing soulfully over Nas’s “Made You Look” the next without missing a beat. The highlight for me was “F-Me Pumps,” a scathing bit of cynicism that sounds like it was recorded in Heaven.
On a personal note, this song remains the single best song I’ve ever been introduced to on one of those “relationship” mixtapes you make for your special someone that they’ll probably listen to once or twice over the course of the relationship*. *NEW* The version that was given to me was a remix known as the Mylo Mix, which I’ve sentimentally thrown up here.
3) Main Source – “Lookin’ At the Front Door” (1992)
For those in Relationships That Plan To End Them as Soon as they Get the Gift and it becomes the 15th –
Arguably the best album to drop on Wild Pitch Records, Main Source’s “Breaking Atoms” is much more than just Nas’s recorded debut. With one of the all time greatest producers Large Professor behind the boards, this album contained one of Hip Hop’s greatest police brutality cuts (“A Friendly Game of Baseball”), posse cuts (“Live at the BBQ”) and the only one-verse song that rivals Eric B. and Rakim’s “Paid in Full” (“Peace is Not the Word to Play”)
The album also contained this single, “Lookin’ At the Front Door.” One of the most referenced songs in the genre, this break down of exactly why a relationship isn’t working is funny, clever, and ultimatly moving. Couple that with one of the most recognizable beats of the era and you have an undisputed Hip-Hop classic, everything the genre can and should be.
4) Souls of Mischief – “Step to My Girl” (1992)
For the Overprotective Boyfriend, and those who Covet them –
A song that sadly never saw the light of day on “93 Til Infinity” due to sample clearance issues, this Bay Area banger about the absurd machismo of overprotective boyfriends is one of the best creations from a crew who, at the time, could do no wrong. The beauty of the Grover Washinton Jr. sample (an instrumental cover of Bread’s “Aubrey,” a song with lyrics so pre-emo that my wrists hurt just listening to them) and the contrast it provides to the crew’s endearing slapstick makes for a one-of-a-kind gem. With the sample at the end making for one final solid laugh, the song is four minutes and nine seconds of perfection. The hilarious KRS sample for the chorus doesn’t hurt either.
5) Chaz Kangas – “Black Cherry Chazfool” (2009)
DOWNLOAD THIS NEW CHAZ KANGAS SONG HERE!!!
For those having this night of all nights for awkward first dates –
*NEW* Originally “Black Cherry Audrey” from my 2005 collaboration album with Patrick “Kid Icarus” Swanson (Mouthful of Bees), here’s a quick press blurb from before the album’s release:
“One of the prettier moments on “Notes from the Underground”, this charming ode to awkward love disarms, arms, and disarms again.”
I had always liked the song and would work it into my live sets whenever possible. Once “Knee Jerk Reaction” came out I forgot about it and didn’t take it out of the vault until last December when I wanted to rework an old song of mine as the B-Side to my 2009 Christmas song “Christmas Mischief.” I don’t recall what exactly drove me to do it over “Lovefool” by the Cardigans, but somehow it worked.
Love me, or leave me alone.
And on that note, I hope you’ve enjoyed this romantic romp. I’m trying real hard to earn one of those Facebook wall gifts, so hopefully this great deed** won’t go unrewarded.
I also want to dedicate this post to my college Facebook girlfriend of two years, Katherine “Shadowcat” Pryde. Of all the fictional characters I’ve ever been involved with, you’ve by far kept it the realest. If you’re not busy with the X-Men, save me a dance at the end of the night.
*The worst is still “Teenage Rock and Roll Machine” by the Donnas.
** Greater even than the 2002 Adam Sandler film Mr. Deeds.
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